Hello、munejyuka。

Have you ever felt that it is difficult to ask someone to do something and have them do what you ask?
I think it depends on the situation.、There are times when I ask someone for a favor at work, but they don't take care of it and I don't move on to the next step.。

I did a little research on when people "move".。

People move because of “fear” and “emotions”

It is said that when people feel fear, they are more likely to follow orders.。When you feel fear、It seems like you will no longer be able to make your own decisions → you will follow the rules.。
Moreover, if this situation continues, it will become normal.、It is said that thinking stops and the ability to make decisions for oneself decreases.。

I've heard it before、Slavery somewhere has disappeared、Some of the people there、Although it was opened、That means he didn't want to leave the place.。
It is said that this is because fear stops thinking and the ability to make decisions for oneself is lost.。

Also、It is a common story that we are driven by our emotions.。
Usually a calm person、Did you get angry and punch someone during a sports match?、go to the clothing store、While trying it on at the recommendation of the store clerk,、I think it's common to end up buying clothes you didn't intend to buy.。

Recognize that you are driven by fear and emotion

What you need to remember or recognize is、Everyone

Sometimes we act out of “fear” and “emotions”

about it。

I don't think that's the case with me、What exactly are “fear” and “emotions”? If it says、I might be in trouble someday.。

If you recognize、When you have a scary experience、It means you have a chance to come to your senses when your emotions are running high.。

You can control your emotions

“Fear” has a strong external element.、Emotions are largely within your control.。

So、Get angry and hit others、The act of buying things you don't need、If you understand in your head that people are driven by emotions, you will definitely have more chances to avoid them.。

Control your own emotions、I want to walk the path I want to take!

Let's do our best together! !